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Don't we look nice? :)
That photo was taken at my grandmother's place by my grandmother, then she sent us the picture with the post.
I think that was very nice of her to do so.

We really have no pictures of the three of us, as one of us usually is behind the camera.
So if you happen to have pictures of the three of us, please do send them to me in one form or another.

My head is totally empty.
I have no idea of any subject, no head line, no witty stories.

Work is rather slow.

It's raining.

Aron is being silly most of the time, coming up with new dance moves all the time.
He has started explaining stuff to us now also, he just talks alot of gibberish and then finishes with "okay?" every time.
We have a little bit of a routine we do every day now. We read, we dance and then we run around with small cars and we go "brrrrrrrrrrrr brrrrrrrrr brrrrrrmmmm".

I was disappointed to know that I didn't get any Stryper tickets after all...
I was really looking forward to this trip.
But because of their terrible ticket booking system I didn't get any tickets.
I wrote them an email, but I doubt it will help.

Alright, back to work. This day hasn't really been that great.
But from one of my friends I learnt not to blog about your employer.
I actually know one guy who lost his job because of what he wrote on his blog!
Now that would be something to write about.

Take care dudes and dudettes!

I just wanted this today, because it's so good!
But it's just outrageously expensive!

But it has Calcium, vitamins B2 + B12 and it's just full of protein!
And it's very Yummy!
But expensive...

So today I skipped buying real food, coffee and soda, and instead invested in this yumminess.

Found this pic on the net and thought it was totally adorable!
That baby is just too cute! :)

So nothing much.
I'm tired. Haven't slept that much or good now for almost a week.
I think Aron is getting some more teeth again, cause he has been really restless during the last few nights.
And Tanja is having a cold/flue or something and isn't all too energetic.

On a sidenote, even though if it feels like this whole post is one big sidenote, I got some kind of 24 year crisis (Yes, I turned 24 this Thuesday) and placed a bid on a Gameboy Advance SP on the net.
Now I won it and it should come in the post today.
It was a bit funny, I got it really cheap, and I think it was because the ad was in english...
I was the only bidder.

But that about nothing.
Back to work.

What is Paranoid Personality Disorder?

Quick Summary:

Paranoid personality disorder is characterized by a distrust of others and a constant suspicion that people around you have sinister motives. People with this disorder tend to have excessive trust in their own knowledge and abilities and usually avoid close relationships. They search for hidden meanings in everything and read hostile intentions into the actions of others. They are quick to challenge the loyalties of friends and loved ones and often appear cold and distant. They usually shift blame to other people and tend to carry long grudges.
Symptoms of Paranoid Personality Disorder:

* Unwillingness to forgive perceived insults
* Excessive sensitivity to setbacks
* Distrustfulness and excessive self-reliance
* Projection of blame onto others
* Consumed by anticipation of betrayal
* Combative and tenacious adherence to personal rights
* Relentlessly suspicious

Additional Information:

Paranoid personality disorder is difficult to treat, as paranoids are often extremely suspicious of medical professionals. A combination of medication and talk therapy can be effective at combating the more debilitating symptoms of this disorder.

What is Schizoid Personality Disorder?

Quick Summary:

People with schizoid personality disorder avoid relationships and do not show much emotion. Unlike avoidants, schizoids genuinely prefer to be alone and do not secretly wish for popularity. They tend to seek jobs that require little social contact. Their social skills are often weak and they do not show a need for attention or acceptance. They are perceived by others as humorless and distant and often are termed "loners."
Symptoms of Schizoid Personality Disorder:

* Weak interpersonal skills
* Difficulty expressing anger, even when provoked
* "Loner" mentality; avoidance of social situations
* Appear to others as remote, aloof, and unengaged
* Low sexual desire
* Unresponsive to praise or criticism

Additional Information:

It is important to distinguish schizoid from avoidant. Avoidants will feel anxiety in social situations and have the desire to fit in, while schizoids simply prefer to be alone. It is occassionally difficult to distinguish between schizoid and Asperger's, as well.

This disorder is diagnosed more frequently and is often more severe among males. Schizoids usually do not seek treatment on their own and are often coaxed into it by a loved one.

What is Schizotypal Personality Disorder?

Quick Summary:

Many believe that schizotypal personality disorder represents mild schizophrenia. The disorder is characterized by odd forms of thinking and perceiving, and individuals with this disorder often seek isolation from others. They sometimes believe to have extra sensory ability or that unrelated events relate to them in some important way. They generally engage in eccentric behavior and have difficulty concentrating for long periods of time. Their speech is often over elaborate and difficult to follow.
Symptoms of Schizotypal Personality Disorder:

* Odd or eccentric mannerisms or appearance
* Superstitious or preoccupied with paranormal phenomena
* Difficult to follow speech patterns
* Feelings of anxiety in social situations
* Suspiciousness and paranoia
* Odd beliefs or magical thinking
* Appears shy, aloof, or withdrawn to others

Additional Information:

None at this time.

What is Antisocial Personality Disorder?

Quick Summary:

A common misconception is that antisocial personality disorder refers to people who have poor social skills. The opposite is often the case. Instead, antisocial personality disorder is characterized by a lack of conscience. People with this disorder are prone to criminal behavior, believing that their victims are weak and deserving of being taken advantage of. Antisocials tend to lie and steal. Often, they are careless with money and take action without thinking about consequences. They are often agressive and are much more concerned with their own needs than the needs of others.
Symptoms of Antisocial Personality Disorder:

* Disregard for the feelings of others
* Impulsive and irresponsible decision-making
* Lack of remorse for harm done to others
* Lying, stealing, other criminal behaviors
* Disregard for the safety of self and others

Additional Information:

A majority of criminals in prison have some degree of antisocial personality disorder. Treatment is highly difficult, although the symptoms often diminish with age.

What is Borderline Personality Disorder?

Quick Summary:

Borderline personality disorder is characterized by mood instability and poor self-image. People with this disorder are prone to constant mood swings and bouts of anger. Often, they will take their anger out on themselves, causing injury to their own body. Suicidal threats and actions are not uncommon. Borderlines think in very black and white terms and often form intense, conflict-ridden relationships. They are quick to anger when their expectations are not met.
Symptoms of Borderline Personality Disorder:

* Self-injury or attempted suicide
* Strong feelings of anger, anxiety, or depression that last for several hours
* Impulsive behavior
* Drug or alcohol abuse
* Feelings of low self-worth
* Unstable relationships with friends, family, and boyfriends/girlfriends

Additional Information:

Borderline personality disorder was so-named because it was originally thought to be at the "borderline" of psychosis. The disorder is relatively common, affecting 2% of adults. Women are much more likely to suffer borderline than men. Nearly 20% of psychiatric hospitalizations are due to borderline. With treatment, patients are often able to see their symptoms improve.

Treatment involves therapy in which the patient learns to talk through his or her feelings rather than unleashing them in destructive and self-defeating ways. Medication may be helpful, and treatment of any alcohol or substance abuse issues is required. Brief hospitalization is sometimes required, especially in cases involving psychotic episodes or suicide threats or attempts.

What is Histrionic Personality Disorder?

Quick Summary:

People with histrionic personality disorder are constant attention seekers. They need to be the center of attention all the time, often interrupting others in order to dominate the conversation. They use grandiose language to discribe everyday events and seek constant praise. They may dress provacatively or exaggerate illnesses in order to gain attention. Histrionics also tend to exaggerate friendships and relationships, believing that everyone loves them. They are often manipulative.
Symptoms of Histrionic Personality Disorder:

* Needs to be the center of attention
* Dresses or acts provocatively
* Rapidly-shifting and shallow emotions
* Exaggerates friendships
* Overly-dramatic, occassionally theatrical speech
* easily influenced; highly suggestible

Additional Information:

None at this time.

What is Narcissistic Personality Disorder?

Quick Summary:

Narcissistic personality disorder is characterized by self-centeredness. Like histrionic disorder, people with this disorder seek attention and praise. They exaggerate their achievements, expecting others to recongize them as being superior. They tend to be choosy about picking friends, since they believe that not just anyone is worthy of being their friend. Narcissists tend to make good first impressions, yet have difficulty maintaining long-lasting relationships. They are generally uninterested in the feelings of others and may take advantage of them.
Symptoms of Narcissistic Personality Disorder:

* Requires excessive praise and admiration
* Takes advantage of others
* Grandiose sense of self-importance
* Lack of empathy
* Lying, to self and others
* Obsessed with fantasies of fame, power, or beauty

Additional Information:

Narcissism is most often found in men and is often diagnosed with other mental disorders.

What is Avoidant Personality Disorder?

Quick Summary:

Avoidant personality disorder is characterized by extreme social anxiety. People with this disorder often feel inadequate, avoid social situations, and seek out jobs with little contact with others. Avoidants are fearful of being rejected and worry about embarassing themselves in front of others. They exaggerate the potential difficulties of new situations to rationalize avoiding them. Often, they will create fantasy worlds to substitute for the real one. Unlike schizoid personality disorder, avoidants yearn for social relations yet feel they are unable to obtain them. They are frequently depressed and have low self-confidence.
Symptoms of Avoidant Personality Disorder:

* Social inhibition; retreating from others in anticipation of rejection
* Preoccupation with being rejected or criticized in social situations
* Fear of embarrassment results in avoidance of new activities
* Poor self-image; feelings of social ineptitude
* Desire for improved social relations
* Appear to others as self-involved and unfriendly
* Creation of elaborate fantasy lives

Additional Information:

None at this time

What is Dependent Personality Disorder?

Quick Summary:

Dependent personality disorder is characterized by a need to be taken care of. People with this disorder tend to cling to people and fear losing them. They may become suicidal when a break-up is imminent. They tend to let others make important decisions for them and often jump from relationship to relationship. Dependents often remain in abusive relationships. Over-sensitivity to disapproval is common. Dependents often feel helpless and depressed.
Symptoms of Dependent Personality Disorder:

* Difficulty making decisions
* Feelings of helplessness when alone
* Suicidal thoughts upon rejection
* Submissiveness
* Deeply hurt by mild criticism or disapproval
* Unable to meet ordinary demands of life

Additional Information:

None at this time.

What is Obsessive-Compulsive Personality Disorder?

Quick Summary:

While Obsessive-Compulsive personality disorder (OCDP) sounds similar in name to obsessive-compulsive anxiety disorder, the two are markedly different disorders. People with obsessive-compulsive personality disorder are overly focused on orderliness and perfection. Their need to do everything "right" often interferes with their productivity. They tend to get caught up in the details and miss the bigger picture. They set unreasonably high standards for themselves and others, and tend to be very critical of others when they do not live up to these high standards. They avoid working in teams, believing others to be too careless or incompetent. They avoid making decisions because they fear making mistakes and are rarely generous with their time or money. They often have difficulty expressing emotion.
Symptoms of Obsessive-Compulsive Personality Disorder:

* Need for perfection and excessive discipline
* Preoccupation with orderliness
* Inflexibility
* Lack of generosity
* Hyper-focus on details and rules
* Excessive devotion to work

Additional Information:

The potential for improvement with treatment is better for obsessive-compulsive personality disorder than for other personality disorders. A combination of medication and therapy tends to yield positive results.

http://www.4degreez.com/misc/personality_disorder_test.mv

So, I was challenged by Carina to list 8 bad habits that I have.

Starting sequence.
Choosing level of bad habits that people actually might want to hear about.
Here we go.

1. I pick my nose

2. I'm lazy

3. I tend to leave the lights on when leaving the apartment

4. All too often speak too negatively about stuff

5. I forget things all the time

6. Sometimes I care too little

7. Sometimes I care too much

8. I usually eat until I'm very full, like really very full, and then just feel bad

Are those even habits? I don't know. But at least there are 8 of them.

So I've had a busy weekend with visiting my sister in Helsinki with my mother, wife, and also a sister-in-law in the car on the way down.
We visited Ikea, ate chinese food that my sister made us and a lot of other things.

My sister has a very weird understanding of what's simple.
She said she would make a simple, fast and uncomplicated dinner.
When chopping the vegetables for the food, I asked her if all this would fit in one wok.
"One?!" she told me, "No, it's for six different dishes!".
But it was VERY good and yummy indeed!

Then I went to see many different metal bands performing during 7 hours of constant moshing.
My neck still hurts, but I also found a new favorite band. They are called The Weakening.
Simply awesome.

After the concerts I crashed at a friends place (Thanks Cicka for lending me your floor!), and the next morning we ate pizza for breakfast, and then I was off to the city centre to find some other friends (who are also our neighbours) which whom I would get a ride back to Vaasa with (Thanks Dadde and Lola for the ride back home!).

And to make up for all the days I've not been blogging, I give you, Jamaicas national anthem!

Eternal Father, Bless our Land,
Guide us with thy mighty hand,
Keep us free from evil powers,
Be our light through countless hours,
To our leaders, great defender,
Grant true wisdom from above,
Justice, truth be ours forever,
Jamaica, land we love,
Jamaica, Jamaica, Jamaica, land we love

Teach us true respect for all,
Stir response to duty's call,
Strengthen us the weak to cherish,
Give us vision lest we perish,
Knowledge send us Heavenly Father,
Grant true wisdom from above,
Justice, truth be ours forever,
Jamaica, land we love,
Jamaica, Jamaica, Jamaica, land we love

Btw, there are alot of people driving very poorly in the traffic.
And all those who drive poorly seems to like to drive fast as well.
I almost saw a pedestrian get hit by a car this morning while crossing the street.
Jake wrote some good stuffa about this on his blog a while ago, go check it out, you'll find a link to the left, it says "Jake".

Have a good day!

Matthew 6:20

Lay not up for yourselves treasures upon earth, where moth and rust doth corrupt, and where thieves break through and steal:

But lay up for yourselves treasures in heaven, where neither moth nor rust doth corrupt, and where thieves do not break through nor steal:

So, about one year ago I bought a mp3 player and some headphones, and they were as close to perfect as things as those might come to suit the needs I had.
And they both had an one-year warranty! "Woohoo", I thought to myself.

But after one year, and maybe one month, they both started falling apart, the player now has a disfunctioning play button which affects all of the functions on the player due to the minimalistic button approach.
I can't adjust the volume one step at a time but I have to hold in the button and race towards a level of proper volume and try to stop at that. And everytime I do something it starts, or stops, the song playing.
It can be frustrating, but at least I can still listen to it.
And honestly it was a bit of my own fault as I carried heavy boxes while having the player in my pocket, resulting in some mp3 player crushing.

The headphones were not my fault though! They broke in two without me being violent at all!

And now winter apporaches, which reminds me of my very nice beenie being stolen last vinter/spring.
It took me forever to find a beenie that fitted my humongous head and still managed to look really nice.
Now I have to find a new one.

In all of this I hope I have succeeded to gather some treasures in heaven instead.
Where no warranty is needed, no flimsy play-buttons exist, and where my beenies are left alone, and I am sure that every beenie I ever try on in heaven will fit perfectly and look totally awesome on me.

To further underline the subject I chose to post this video as well.


And here are the lyrics so you all can sing along!

The world is quick to tell us
The media compels us
For me to have and you to not
Is the difference in our lot
If you must compound your joy
Then you must acquire this toy
Just remember this – a kiss is just a kiss
A smile is just a smile
The things you own will not atone
Or spare you from the life you’ve sown

Where moth and rust destroy
A land of tears and sadness
When those who put their faith in things
Find out it’s only madness

Enjoy all that He gives you
But make sure you can see through
The haze that blocks the clarity
Of seeing the eternity
Of things that last and things that don’t
Of choices we should make, but won’t
If you will just incline your ear
There is something you must hear
Heed his words and you’ll be free
From loving things more than Me

Where moth and rust destroy
A land of tears and sadness
When those who put their faith in things
Find out it’s only madness

Choose – you must choose
You must choose
Who you serve

Just waiting in the darkened wings
The voice that says to trust in things
Aspire to acquire – aspire to acquire
Light the sacrificial fire
Death to things

Today I have read about Putin.
A little bit about who he is and what he is up to.
And I must say that imo he is one of the most interesting persons in the political world of today.
He is bold, makes many changes, gets things done, and at the same time feels a bit dangerous.

If you feel bored then I suggest reading about him, you'll be more up to date with the politics of the world, and you'll probably get an interesting read as well.

Did you know he has got the black belt in Judo as well?

I find this page to be interesting and I follow it from time to time:

http://www.kremlin.ru/eng/

Then better do it now.

First, I will never join FaceBook. Never I tell you! No!
This is one internet trend I will not follow, I did all the other ones (even though I think the blog-craze was rather good actually, I like blogging).
Just so you know.

I have been thinking about web 2.0, about all the good things and all the bad things.
The thing that annoys me most has to be the exhibitionism of it all, you post one million pics and write one million things, about you. I understand that it can be interesting for some people to get to know what happens in some peoples lives, but there is seriously too much "navelludd" on the internet.
(You can go to Babelfish and translate "navelludd" to English if you want to.)
Then there's all the online bullying that are goin on amongst teenagers today, I have no experience of this as it didn't exist when I was a teenager, but I've heard it's a big problem today.

What else can I nag about? Not much really.
I've come to the conclusion that I need to nag a lot less and star rejoyicing a lot more.
I really do admire people who have a very positive attitude towards life, those who say good things about the teachers when everyone else is just angry with them.
Too many times have I jumped on the nag-nag train when my workmates/classmates have started whining about something.
It has to be gone.

Now I have blogged, will blog againg tomorrow, and maybe I will find the time to actually think of something smart to blog about.

You never know. :)

PS. Really great to see comments from people that I haven't seen comments from in a long time, such as Jake, Rolle, my sister, Linda and so on. Great fun!